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The Great Gender Divide.

Got this really funny Image today titled " The Gender Divide ". From experience I can say the message it conveys is definitely true. Women ARE more complex than men because their thought process is so totally run by emotions. Its a bittersweet thing actually depending on the situation. Since men think logically I think we are easy. But yes usually when emotions start playing in a Man (many a times usually when a lady is involved), Oh then he is so totally confused & lost he starts making a fool out of himself. Urs truly learnt it from quite many experiences. These hormones that come into play scare the hell outta me cuz they make a Man look silly. Women can handle it better cuz that's the way they are, tuned to adapt right from when puberty strikes. For us men, when puberty hits all we know is to start checking women out through various mediums. Ahem . No wonder the genders complain that they are so totally flummoxed by each other. We live in a crazy crazy world whi...

Blahed Thoughts, The First

Spoke today to My best buddy of more than 12 years, Ujwal, about a crazy emo crap I was going through. Something that surprises him & me are both our lives run almost on the same fuckin' script! Really really freakin' weird but good for us in a way. Coming to the K-Serial... I was having a problem with a very close friend of mine. I almost wanted to get a ' L ' tattoo on my head for having messaged & called her a million times (Yes. With Male problems its almost always a "her' isn't it? :D). Big mistake that won't see repetition. I mean I didn't have to, u know. I really didn't commit a mistake consciously. I said something that might have sounded crude on the surface but then again the other person was so close to me that she knew how I always talked & she misunderstood my statement as something that was negative & hurtful when I actually meant to uplift her low self-esteem by giving some advice. I really cared for her & wan...

The Second Class Friend

sec∙ond class friend idiom. 1. A friend treated inferior. 2. A friend given secondary status. It's not about an ancient pal from the 2nd grade. It's about the feeling of being treated low by friends you believe are/were close to you. I read a comment on a blog where a person stated that a trivial friendship is much easier handled than a close one. Her stated reason? there are just too many emotions involved with the close pal which causes quite a bit of highs & lows whereas in a fair-weather one you didn't give a damn about the other person's opinion. I agree. I'm beginning to believe that a close friendship with the opposite sex is actually like a relationship without the intimacy & with lesser whining perhaps, but the good times, fights-on-trivial-matters & misunderstandings are indeed there for the 2 of 'em involved, to see. I think, I, as a human do have few issues. Once I consider someone a close friend, I tend to be there ...