Peoples' reaction to my letter-post was quite a trip! My sis thought it made me look needy & emotional & she found it like an eye opener cuz I'm the opposite of that, Live. She thinks the toughness is a facade. I disagree. I've the reason. My friend Arjun thought I had the Hots for the woman. Emotional, I can agree with cuz yes I do get involved emotionally with my closest pals only. Its almost like their problems are mine too. Weird shit, I tell you. Typical Saggitarian. Totally detached from most things in life including family, except friends. We are there all the time to help and man, has that turned out to be a fuckin' pain! but Needy! that definitely is not what it was. And I'm not in denial. I accept it if its the truth. Is it wrong to have expectations? Like my friend Ujwal said, even a Friendship is a relationship and it should be equal. Give & take is the game baby. Its not a charity service. I also didn't have no "Louu" feelings for the lady. It was love in the friendship form & good camaraderie & respect. Nothing more.
My sis advised me to listen, console, not get involved & get on with life. Awesome advice. Did I tell you, I think older women are way more sensible. I'd like to get Demi-ed one day (read Demi-Moored.. if u still don't get it, do me a favour & get back to ur laundry?). Btw to anyone interested, as of today, sis is still single :D ... Ok before this turns into a Date/Matrimonial post, I shall get on with my rant. Ahem.
I used to get deep only cuz they keep whining about all their problems in life non stop, so I as a dumb fuck thought they wanted advice, I didn't realize that they just were lookin for a person to listen. So Yes I advised. Cough. Another gem from sis - "Women don't look for advice. They want to be heard. The advice will fall on deaf ears cuz women do what they want to do, eventually". Yeah many of u must think ok wotz new here? OK guys cut me some slack here, I've been slow on the Social-interaction-with-women ladder, although the inter-action (ahem) ladders I scaled quite fast. Haha. So, eventually I ended up looking like a chooth where after they got back into relationship heaven, they used to see me as that blip on their radar screens. I sat there like a scratch on a CD which skipped and went onto smoother points, not knowing these age old gyan back then. I have changed my ways with this new enlightening vision & the women in my life right now have to Live with it. If they can't & continue expecting things the old way, I've a wonderful quote a great man (I'm sure) once said - "Take a Hike".
So, I've decided to put this statement up (read about me) on my blog instead of putting an L symbol on my forehead. The men are so so so uncomplicated, atleast the ones I know. I have more fun when its just them. When women are around, some of them clam up cuz they have to be "gentlemanly, chivalrous" & all that loada crap! which makes them the opposite of Fun! I believe, when a woman expects a man to be chivalrous, she immediately puts herself lower and not equal, to man. These etiquette were formed when women had no rights and were of low importance, basically what I call stone-age in slang. My demeanor seems to make 'em squirm. Awesome!
My sis advised me to listen, console, not get involved & get on with life. Awesome advice. Did I tell you, I think older women are way more sensible. I'd like to get Demi-ed one day (read Demi-Moored.. if u still don't get it, do me a favour & get back to ur laundry?). Btw to anyone interested, as of today, sis is still single :D ... Ok before this turns into a Date/Matrimonial post, I shall get on with my rant. Ahem.
I used to get deep only cuz they keep whining about all their problems in life non stop, so I as a dumb fuck thought they wanted advice, I didn't realize that they just were lookin for a person to listen. So Yes I advised. Cough. Another gem from sis - "Women don't look for advice. They want to be heard. The advice will fall on deaf ears cuz women do what they want to do, eventually". Yeah many of u must think ok wotz new here? OK guys cut me some slack here, I've been slow on the Social-interaction-with-women ladder, although the inter-action (ahem) ladders I scaled quite fast. Haha. So, eventually I ended up looking like a chooth where after they got back into relationship heaven, they used to see me as that blip on their radar screens. I sat there like a scratch on a CD which skipped and went onto smoother points, not knowing these age old gyan back then. I have changed my ways with this new enlightening vision & the women in my life right now have to Live with it. If they can't & continue expecting things the old way, I've a wonderful quote a great man (I'm sure) once said - "Take a Hike".
So, I've decided to put this statement up (read about me) on my blog instead of putting an L symbol on my forehead. The men are so so so uncomplicated, atleast the ones I know. I have more fun when its just them. When women are around, some of them clam up cuz they have to be "gentlemanly, chivalrous" & all that loada crap! which makes them the opposite of Fun! I believe, when a woman expects a man to be chivalrous, she immediately puts herself lower and not equal, to man. These etiquette were formed when women had no rights and were of low importance, basically what I call stone-age in slang. My demeanor seems to make 'em squirm. Awesome!
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